by Bill Malone, MSW, LISW
Are you feeling like you want to quit your job? Do you find yourself humming the song, Take This Job And Shove It? Is the idea of going to one more meeting so dissatisfying to you that you fantasize a summer storm knocking down your office building? Is the thought of collecting unemployment compensation appealing to you? Do you find yourself being bored with your work or have you lost your zest, creativity or enthusiasm for your job? Have you been experiencing an increased amount of conflicts with co-workers and/or your boss?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, which I would guess you did, then you have at one point in career experienced job-related stress. Job stress is not limited to any one type of job, but certain jobs like a secretary or office manager in a busy firm might experience more job related stress than lets say a farmer or a mailman. All jobs come with some degree of stress. Stress is not necessarily a bad thing to have; it is a problem when demands get so great that a persons normal level of coping no longer is able to handle the amount of stress. When this point is reached the feelings described above start to emerge and without some intervention the workers ability to do the job diminishes.
There are two approaches to use when dealing with job stress. The first approach, one which I do not recommend, but one which I have employed, is called the Im Tough As Nails. In this approach the steps for dealing with stress are to: blame others for things that go wrong, work twice as long, dont take a break and dont let anyone else take one either; rant and rave; and complain to your boss that your co-worker is incompetent and does not do anything. Last, but not least, have a few beers at night to unwind after, of course, you have come home, criticized your spouse, yelled at the kids and kicked the cat. You are now ready to relax for the night and go out and hit it tomorrow.
The second approach, and the one I teach in my The Art of Relaxation class, is divided into two parts. The first part addresses what the individual can do to help himself better cope with the pressures of work and the second part is what the employer can do to reduce the amount of stress produced by a particular job. We will first examine part one.
WHAT YOU CAN DO TO REDUCE YOUR JOB STRESS
1. GET ORGANIZED
2. REMEMBER TIME LIMITS
3. LEAVE HOME WITHOUT THE PERFECTIONISM
4. DROP THE SUPERMAN APPROACH
5. TRY TO MAINTAIN A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
WHAT THE EMPLOYER CAN DO TO REDUCE STRESS FACTORS
Management for the 1990s is not going to be an simple task. The demands for quality, competition from competitors, here and abroad are requiring a shift in management styles. These changes are also stressful to the managers and those they manage. Getting lean and mean is not enough. Companies who are prospering like Rubbermaid and Toyota are doing so because they are cost-wise, creative and caring.
Caring is an important part of what motivates people. Social Workers and Psychologists have known this fact for years. PEOPLE NEED TO FEEL IMPORTANT, VALUED AND APPRECIATED IN ORDER TO CONTINUE TO PRODUCE AT TOP PERFORMANCES. Lets look at five simple practices an employer can do for her employees to help reduce the stress level.
1. PRAISE POSITIVE WORK - DONT TAKE IT FOR GRANTED
2. SHOW APPRECIATION
3. SEE EVERY EMPLOYEE WITH EQUAL VALUE
4. SEE EACH EMPLOYEE AS DIFFERENT - WITH DIFFERENT NEEDS
5. COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE
This information is only a small taste of the information that is available on job stress and ways to reduce it. If you are experiencing any of the symptoms described above and cannot find relief, professional help may be needed.
WHAT THERAPY COULD DO FOR YOU
Psychotherapy may provide you with a means to help you identify the causes of your stress and help you develop a plan to incorporate into your daily life. Therapy may assist you in approaching the problem more effectively. A treatment plan may include a career assessment. Many times job stress occurs because a person is not in his desired position and is afraid to make a change because of unclear goals. Counseling provides directions, perspectives, support and ideas that have not been considered.
Employers may want to know more about The Art Of Relaxation class for assisting employees in reducing their stress and becoming more motivated. This class is suitable for a group in-service program on your job location. The benefits of such a program can lead to a better, more creative, and cooperative work environment.
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